The Fulham striker was given his marching orders after he had pushed Gervasio Nunez on the shoulder, but the Argentine went down holding his face in dramatic fashion.
"You could say it was a frustrating evening," Jol said. "Before the sending off I think we were in control.
"After that they had more confidence, of course, because they played with 11 players and it was an awful night for us.
"Even after that we should have had a couple of decisions. You can't say anything about the referee, bad or good."
The result leaves the Cottagers in second place in Group K, behind leaders FC Twente.